Questionable Questing

I tried out a new mexican restaurant afterwards that was nearby, and it tasted pretty decent so that made up for it a little bit. And of course having more money is always fun, even if it was used to help pay for the vet bill for Buster.

Buster feeling better and as noted above ghosted again. Which is something to bitch about for a brief and then go on.

He's doing a little bit better. He was never in any pain or stopped eating, a big reason why I wasn't too worried, but his balance has definitely gotten a little bit better although he still tilts his head down a little bit. So I'm kind of keeping an eye on it.

Good to keep an eye on the dogo and make sure he is healthy

But with being ghosted, I don't really know what to say. With those kinds of websites there's a lot more guys than gal's, and a lot of those guys have more money, taller, better looks. You're kind of fighting against the current here, especially since a lot of the girls on those kinds of websites either have issues or are looking for something in particular. And the second one is the dangerous part.

Money, security, future victims in the case with how rampant BPD girls have become. It's kind of scary, you have to be careful and vet whoever you're talking too.

Thanks. I know you can't say a lot. I just like having someone to talk to about it and share the feelings. It helps knowing someone cares when others clearly didn't. People don't have to like me. You can't make them and you shouldn't. However, there's this pattern of not even really trying to interact and get to know someone. Little effort

Well, your not the only going through it. A shit load of guys have been saying the same thing about these websites, and even the girls have been struggling too. Because as it turns out those guys with the money or the looks are on this website for a reason as well, despite obviously having no trouble finding girls, and it because their looking for an easy hook up and not any kind real relationship.

It's kind of sad, you'll see these thirty or forty year old woman, who just got out of a divorce or a long relationship, looking to get back into the dating scene and not really knowing how, and they are just fucking fish or cows to get eaten by these people.

My developing misogyny is stagnated and slain by the idea that womena are also being ghosted I kid but interesting that this is a equal gender problem

Insecure because they're older and fatter, have some disposable income from a long career or generous divorce settlement, and do not understand just how much dating has changed. And these guys are looking for that. Pretty soon you'll see these moms talking about situationships and paying all this money or doing all this stuff trying to keep him around. They get eaten alive, just pumped and dumped for everything.

And I mean that last sentence pump and dump quite literally, lol. Then they get abandoned because they ran of money or sex, or theirs too much drama or issues going on and then these guys move on to the next one. Leaving these girls crying alone in parking lots on tick tock about how evil men are.

Ain't me. I'm too uniquely nerdy to be that. And just kinda nice in general. I think of how people talk about the Nice Guy problem and I think of it as guys like that just being Nice can get you a girl and they don't have to worry about the reality you talk of.

That is, you actually have to find that person who likes your personality and interacting with you. And that's hard and random and there's no easy way to it. Where as Being Nice gets you pussy and love is stupid but sounds effective

And want that music video from Arcane?

The problem is that being nice doesn't get you pussy, Being a ruthless asshole gets you pussy. lol. Kissinger looked like a fucking toad, but he was banging super models and actresses by the dozen. He was also a brutal psychopath whose decisions and foreign policy helped kill thousands of people. And also have this great quote about how, power is the best aphrodisiac.

Having a shit ton of money does help. Though with pussy. Once you have it and get it enough, it stops being all important. Things like do I actually like this person matter.

But the things is I don't want to be a brutal psychopath, nor do I care about having a bunch of meaningless sex with broken or equally psychopathic girls. I just want a loving wife and a loving family, and that's honestly a lot more complicated. lol. I mean look how many books there are about being a good father or husband.

Look at how many people suck at those two things and how special it is to see an old married couple that still genuinely really loves each other the same after decades. Or how special a good father is, and listening to someone talk about how their still best friends with their dad even as an adult. Being a good person is a lot harder than being evil. It's a lot more special.

Evil minus some extreme personality traits is just doing what is most easy all the time for yourself