Questionable Questing

"Marriage was born in "brutal violence and unwilling submission," yet the very control of man over woman opened the possibility of love between the sexes.17

The male loved the female not in spite of her weakness and vulnerability, but because of it; possessiveness was not an outgrowth of love, but love a consequence of possession. For Lubbock and doubtless many of his contemporaries, the essence and beauty of the male-female relationship resided in inequality"
The victorians are godamn rape sex cultists.

But still just having the interview and knowing people like my resume, makes me feel good and having practice doing interviews is never something I'll turn down. But good on you for deleting tinder. Lots of crazies and flakes on that site. You're probably better off hunting down a site that's smaller or more specifically localized to your area, since usually the bigger the dating app the more scammer's you get.

With the Victorian and Medieval era you have to remind yourself of the groups you're looking at. See using the Medieval era as an example, when people think of marriages from this time, they think of oppressive brothel arrangement between some random thirty years old and a six year old but those kinds of arrangements where usually entirely reserved for the wealthy and elite.

Tinder is swipe swipe for nothing and when I match its barely a conversation.

And these arrangements were purely pragmatic. It was about making sure two kingdoms have an alliance built with blood, that if one gets attacked the other will join in. For the average commoner or nobody farming the fields, that kind of pressure wasn't there. I mean sure there was certain expectations for how men and women should act, as well as certain contracts that get signed when you marry someone.

Cheating in particular was treated harshly since it was seen as bloodline stealing. But for the most part women were just helpful on the farm as men. Men did the heavy labor like plowing or construction, but woman took care of the house which meant handling the garden, livestock, cleaning, and manufactures goods like butter or soap. So very useful and just as labor intensive.

So what all that means is that common men and women where pretty equal in responsibility and power over the household, lots of times your married locally so if you mistreated your spouse you would have to answer to his or her family, and really there was a lot of freedom to pick and choose your partner at this level since everyone was relatively equal.

Sexism is for rich folk

Of course put an asterisk next to equal, since feudalism was a lot more class fluid than people imagine. With land ownership or certain jobs like brewers giving a so-called peasant lots of influence. But still you have just as many stories of women chasing men pack then as you do now. It's just a lot of that was only for the lower class and we don't read about them as much because they aren't seen as important.

Exactly. Sexism is expensive. Having your wife sit around and do nothing but pump babies out is not an option when the fields need to be planted, the cows need to be milked, and the house needs to be looked after. Where one bad season could cause your family to starve, there's no time for petty arguments or playing games. It's all hands on deck. lol.

I'll note this knowledge of girls chasing boys for the changes Lyanna has brought to Westros and so this VN. My New Girlfriend. Go in expecting usual NTR tropes. Get ripped MC who encourages his girlfriend to be a "exhibitionist slut" at a photo shoot.

Have her come home and her hot and bothered ask him to fuck her up hard. Get her make up running. MC keeps asking is she sure and as she keeps saying yes, he goes off the rails. Now this is the kind of sharing I like. If a guy is going to let his girl be used, make it pimping her out and fucking her like the whore she is as part of the fun. Not secretly gay humulation kink.

What's your idea with that? And any fetish, not just NTR, works a whole lot better if both parties are into it. They can be reluctant and need a push to move forward, but seeing two parties lie or try to work around each other, only to end up hurting their partner might be good drama but it doesn't make for good porn. It just adds angst and stress to distract from the horny.

Remove NTR. Have a demon boy make friends in a town and try to help his friends seduce and breed their mothers and whoever else they want. A demon prince of lust trying his best to be of help.

Go full Coffin of Andy and Leyley, where half the story is the kid discovering this demonic power, testing and growing it, and then making a few mistakes that spiral out of control?

The Demon means well. They are really his friends. However, he thinks showing them how their mothers and sisters and crushes are whores and sluts craving use and mastery is best. He sets up what they love to fall and offers to tutor them on how to keep possession of what they want and how to whore them out.

It's a demon of lust. It's gift is emotional and social violence taught and tutored

Am back. Had to take the trash out today, almost forgot. lol.

But well meaning, yet equally manipulative demon, or demoness because currently I'm thinking Makima from Chainsaw Man, trying to convince some dumb kids to seduce their moms with their power and become the man they were destined to be. Why the interest? What makes these boys special or this town special?

Okay so that VN I told you about? AI art Makima is a character. Boys and girls. And honestly, they are the Demon's friends. That's the spin. They were the demon's friends and it loves them for it. The lewd idea is if you make your mom or sister a bimbo slut, they are going to fuck others because their super horny bitches now.