I don't know what you look like, or how you're approaching these girls so I really can't give you advice in either of those. (It's a sad fact but if you have a six pack to show off we wouldn't be talking about unmatched girls. lol) But I've said it before and I'll say it again. Desperation is the most unattractive trait anyone, woman or man, can have.
Seras porn is a rare quality